Thursday, June 29, 2006

Mental Heuristics

A heuristic is a "rule-of-thumb", advice that helps an AI program or human think and act more efficiently by directing thinking in an useful direction.

Some of these heuristics are age-old wisdom, bordering on cliche, but most are actually helpful.

If you want something done, do it yourself
Comment: Obviously true, and doing it is usually very good for your self esteem. A surprising amount of work can be done this way, and experts are not always necessary. However, there is a risk of becoming overworked if you try to do everything yourself - we all need other people after all.

Never procrastinate anything you can do right now
Comment: Very powerful. There are many things that can be fixed or solved with a minimum of effort, but are often pushed aside as unimportant. Unfortunately they won't go away, and in time the feelings of guilt for not having done them will make you even less likely of fixing the problems.

When you have several things you could be doing and don't know which to do: Just do any one of them!
Comments: If you cannot decide between two or more possibilities, then there is a good chance that the differences don't matter. However, most people begin to hesitate in this kind of situation (Fredkin's paradox). If you are conscious of this, you can just choose one choice randomly or according to some standard method.

Always assume that you will succeed
Comments: If you don't expect to succeed in an endeavor, then you will not do your best and will not notice possible solutions, while if you feel that you will eventually succeed you will concentrate all your power at the problem. Of course, there is no point in attempting what you cannot do, a certain amount of self-knowledge is always needed.

If you can't find a solution, change the rules.
Comment: Remember that there are no no-win scenarios.

If you cannot do anything about something, there is no point in worrying about it.
Comment: Worrying is stressful, and in most situations doesn't accomplish anything - it just wastes energy. Instead of worrying about things, either do something about them or find ways around the problem. One useful idea is to write down your worries on slips of paper, and then put them away in a box. Regularly, once a week or so, you open the box and see what you can do about the worries that are still relevant.

Do not rely on conscious decisions for speed - Just Do It
Comments: The conscious mind is surprisingly slow, conscious choices and actions are delayed for a significant time (a reflex acts within some tens of milliseconds, an unconscious reaction to external stimuli circa 100 milliseconds and a conscious choice several seconds). The duty of the conscious mind is usually to inhibit rather than start action, and if you become too conscious of what you are doing in a tense situation you will hesitate or slow down.

It is a good idea to learn to rely on your non-conscious mind, since our conscious mind is slow and has very low bandwidth while the other systems in our brains have a tremendous capacity and actually do most of the real work anyway.

Don't try to explain away your actions for yourself
Comment: While we often do things we do not want to explain our real motivations for before other people (out of fear of embarrassment, anger or loss of image), it is a bad idea to try to convince oneself that the motivation was anything different from what it was. It will only reduce your self-knowledge with deliberate misinformation, and it is often valuable to understand what motivations you have (even if you dislike them or would never admit them in public).

Listen to your intuition, but do not believe it unconditionally
Comments: Intuitive or emotional thinking, analogies, "gut feelings" or "flashes of inspiration" can sometimes give fantastic new insights or show problems from a new direction. Unfortunately such thinking isn't always reliable, and quite often completely wrong! Such insights should never be accepted because you admire their beauty or they are intuitive, only because they fit with reality.

http://www.aleph.se/Trans/Individual/Mental/rules.html

Tuesday, June 27, 2006

Should kids witness a birth?




A true story:
It was late at night and Heidi, who was expecting her second child as home alone with her 3-year old daughter Katelyn. When Heidi started going into labor, she called "911."


Due to a power outage at the time, only one paramedic responded to the call. The house was very dark, so the paramedic asked Katelyn to hold a flashlight high over her mummy so he could see while he helped deliver the baby. Very diligently, Katelyn did as she was asked. Heidi pushed and pushed, and after a little while Connor was born. The paramedic lifted him by his little feet and spanked him on his bottom. Connor began to cry.

The paramedic then thanked Katelyn for her help and asked the wide-eyed 3-year old what she thought about what she had just witnessed. Katelyn quickly responded, "He shouldn't have crawled in there in the first place.Smack him again!"

Saturday, June 17, 2006

Build Your Memory

You already have an excellent memory. You just don't know how to use it!

Many people claim that they possess a poor memory. Indeed you may even be one of those people yourself. Well whether you are or not, the simple fact of the matter is that the vast majority of the population have perfectly good memories. The problem is that they just don’t know how to use them properly

What I have attempted to accomplish with this site, is to outline in simple terms, a variety of techniques, that with a bit of practice and just a little time, will allow the reader to express the full potential of their latent memory capabilities. Techniques I might add, that have been around in one form or another for quite a number of centuries. But that until relatively recent times had only been used extensively by a select number of magicians and showman.

I myself firmly believe that the memory improvement systems that are outlined in my site, are surprisingly straight-forward, and should not take you more than a relatively short period of time to fully master.

Build Your Memory

Wednesday, June 14, 2006

Links ...

Here are some websites I find really interesting :D That's all for today, if I encounter any more interesting links I will let you know. Let me know what you think of the above or any more interesting websites...

Monday, June 12, 2006

Some Pet Names To Call Your Romantic Partner


While I Was Browsing I found this website:- http://www.cornynames.com/. This is a proof that on internet you find everything lol. Here are some names I liked:-
  • Babes
  • Bunny
  • Baby Girl
  • Moose
  • Muffin
  • Peaches
  • Cheeky
  • Monkey
  • Cookie Cup
  • Cake
  • Pumpkin
  • Dear
  • Shining Star
  • Gorgeous
  • Honey
  • Snowflake
  • Hottie
  • Sweetie
  • Sunshine
  • Love
  • Tiger
  • Teddy Bear
  • Honey Bunch





Friday, June 09, 2006

longest quest, about me

Full Name: Loridana Formosa
Nickname: lori, puccu, bunny
Sex: female
Birthday: 13/06/1986
Siblings: sis
Hair colour: brown
Eyecolour: hazel
Shoe size: 39
Height: 160cm
Innie or Outie: outgoing? yes
What are you wearing right now: white top and blue trousers



RELATIONSHIPS----------------------------------------
Who are your closest friends? loadsss
Do you have a bf or gf?: bf
Did you send this to your crush?: i might
Best place to go for a date: err somewhere where you can actually talk
Fav romantic memory?: buq

Fashion Stuff ------------------------------------------
Where is your fav place to shop: rahal gdid
Do you have any tattoos or piercings?: normal piercing on my ears - 1 on
each side

FAVouRitE--------------------------------------------
Colour: blue
Number: 13
Food?: chinese :D
Boys name?: Mark
Girls name?: Elaine
Subject in school?: computing
Animal?: tigers
Favorite kind of pants: white sexy trousers
Drink?: jb coke
Alcohol?: jb code
Celebrity: jennifer aniston
Sport: tennis
Veggie?: tomatoes
fruit?: bananas
Place to visit: Italy
Month: June
Singer/Band: Pink Floyd
Ice Cream: Chocolate
Cologne: White Musk

Have you ever----------------------------------
Given anyone a bath?: myself
Smoked?: err nope
Bungee jumped?: no
Broken the law?: yes
Made yourself throw-up?: yes
went skinny dipping?: no
Been in the opposite sex's washroom: yes
Eaten a dog biscuit?: no
Put your tongue on a frozen pole?: no
Someone ever made you cry?: yes
broken a bone? nooooooo
Played truth or dare: yes
Been in a physical fight?: no
been on a plane?: yes
Come close to dying?: don't think so
Been in a sauna?: no
Been in a hot tub?: yes
Swam in the ocean?: No
Fallen asleep in school? Yes
Kissed your cousin?: No
Broken someone's heart?: yes
Cried when someone died? yes
Wanted someone?: yes
Cried in school?: yes
Saved a MSN conversation?: yes
Saved e-mails?: yes
Wished you were someone else?: yes
Wished you were a member of the opposite sex?: about once a month
Fallen for your best friend? yes
Made out with JUST a friend?: yes
Been rejected?: yes
Been in love?: yes
Been cheated on?: no
Done something you regret?: yes

First Thing That Comes to Mind------------------------------------------

Red: roses
Blue: clothes :D
Autumn: pictures
Cow: mooooo
Greenland: country

What Is ------------------------------------------

Best song you ever heard: Dark Side Of The Moon :- Pink Floyd
Stupidest thing you have ever done: i do quite a lot
Whats your room like: a mess right now
You most prized possesion: buq
Last thing you said?: i'm bored
What is beside you?: a book (ma nafx x kien)
What kind of shampoo do you use: elvive
Something that has happened to you this year: got a new car :D
The worst thing that has happened to you this year: its quite personal, but didn't happen exactly to me

You Ever Had ------------------------------------------
Chicken pox?: yes
Sore Throat?: yes
Cold?: yes
Bloody nose?: yes imma mhux li nfragt
Broken bone?: no [qrun]

Do you ------------------------------------------
Believe in love at first sight?: no
Enjoy parks?: yes
Like picnics?: Yes
Like school?: no
What schools have you gone to? carlo diacono zejtun, MCAST IICT
Hate anyone?: yesssss

Would You ------------------------------------------
Eat a live hamster for $1,000,000?: err nope
Go to a hanson concert if you had free tickets? i'd sell them and get the
money
Kill someone you didn't know for 15 billion dollars?: no
If you were stuck on an island what person would you want with you?: Darryn
If you loved someone and u were keeping something from them and it would
hurt them if they found out, would you tell them?: it depends on what it is.
i dont really know how to keep a secret from my bf


Who ------------------------------------------
Who do you admire?: a collegue of mine for his strong will
Who is the last person that called you?: erm a client probably at work
Who was the last person you slow danced with?: Darryn
Makes you laugh the most?: Darryn
Who has a crush on you?: hope my bf
Who was the last person you touched?: same as about
You hugged?: ukoll
Yelled at?: probably at work
Who broke your heart?: what's in a name if all men are the same? lol
[Shakespear re-arranged in my own words]
Who was the last person that told you they loved you?: Darryn

Do You/Are You ------------------------------------------
Do you like filling these out?: sometimes
Do you wear contacts or glasses?: glasses for reading, tv and pc
Do you like yourself?: yes and no
Do you get along with your family?: no
Do you do drugs?: never
Do u have piercings below the waist?: no
Stolen anything over $50?: no
Obsessive?: sometimes
Eat to much?: right now no
Depressed?: no

Final Questions ------------------------------------------
How many ppl are you sending this to: dunno
listening to right now?: the sound of my pc
What makes you happy?: being with a good company
How many buddies on your list?: 28
What do you like to do?: reading
What did you do yesterday: work brrr
Career: Customer Care Backline
Got any awards?: yes quite a lot for sports and dancing
What are you most scared of: lizards
What car do you wish to have: BMW :D or an Alfa Romeo, a mercedes would do also
Where do you want to get married?: if i have to get married, on the beach or in a nice park, just the witnesses and the two of us, nothing big
If you could change anything about yourself, what would you change?: no comment
Good actress/actor: depends
Good dancer?: when in the mood
Good storyteller?: i dont know
Have a lava lamp?: no
How many remote controls are in your house?: mhux sa noqod noghod.
Are you double jointed: no
What do you dream about?: winning a Lm1m
Last time you showered?: 15 mins ago
Last time you took a bath?: errrr in November when I was abroad
The last movie you saw at the theatres: Da Vinci Code

Either Or ------------------------------------------
Night or Day: night
Sun or Rain: sun
Scary or happy movies: happy
Chocolate or white milk: choc
talking or listening?: both
Vanilla or chocolate: choc
Summer or Winter: summer
Cake or Pie? pie
Silver or Gold: white gold
Diamond or pearl: diamonds at the moment
Sunset or Sunrise: sunset
Coke or Pepsi: coke
Sprite or 7up: 7up
Pants or shorts: pants
Orange juice or apple juice: apple
Cats or dogs: cats
Coffee or tea: coffee
Phone or in person: in person
Oldest, middle, youngest or only child: oldest

FILL OUT (for girls ONLY) ------------------------------------------
Boxers or briefs: Boxers
Older, younger, same age: a bit older
Tall or short: tall
good or bad guy? good in public, bad in private
Ear peirced or not?: not
Dark or blonde hair: dark
Curly or straight hair: str8 hair
Dark or light eyes: nice coloured eyes
Accent or Canadian?: xorta
What do you notice first about guys?: eyes!
Shy or Outgoing: outgoing
Indoor or Outdoor?: both
Jewelery or none: a little
What do you like the most in a guy: respectful, caring

(for guys ONLY) ------------------------------------------
Regular underwear or thong:
Painted nails or not:
Older, younger, same age:
Cute and mysterious or wild and sexy:
Dressy or casual:
Dark or blonde hair:
Long or short hair:
Curly or straight hair:
Dark or light eyes:
Long or short nails:
Hat or no hat:
Good or bad girl:
Hair up or down:
Jewelery or none:
Tall or short:
Pants or dress:
Tan or fair:
Freckles or none:
What do you notice first about girls:
indoor or outdoor:
What do you like the most in a girl:


Thursday, June 08, 2006

Crazy Facts

The human heart creates enough pressure when it pumps out to the body to squirt blood 30 feet.
(O.M.G.!)

A pig's orgasm lasts 30 minutes.

(My next life, I want to be a pig)

A cockroach will live nine days without its head before it starves to
death. (Creepy.)

(I'm still not over the pig.)

Banging your head against a wall uses 150 calories a hour.

(Don't try this at home, maybe at work)

The male praying mantis cannot copulate while its head is attached to
its body. The female initiates sex by ripping the male's head off.

("Honey, I'm home. What the....?!")

The flea can jump 350 times its body length. It's like a human jumping
the length of a football field. (30 minutes..lucky pig! Can you
imagine?)

The catfish has over 27,000 taste buds.
(What could be so tasty on the bottom of a pond?)

Some lions mate over 50 times a day.

(I still want to be a pig in my next life...quality over quantity)

Butterflies taste with their feet.
(Something I always wanted to know.)

The strongest muscle in the body is the tongue.
(Hmmmmmm......)

Right-handed people live, on average, nine years longer than
left-handed people.

(If you're ambidextrous, do you split the difference?)

Elephants are the only animals that cannot jump.
(okay, so that would be a good thing)

A cat's urine glows under a black light.
(I wonder who was paid to figure that out?)

An ostrich's eye is bigger than its brain.

(I know some people like that.)

Starfish have no brains
(I know some people like that, too.)

Polar bears are left-handed.
(If they switch, they'll live a lot longer)

Humans and dolphins are the only species that have sex for pleasure.
(What about that pig??)

Saturday, June 03, 2006

Almost Summer

Ah well the weekend is here :). Didn't really start out as a pretty good weekend, but tonight we're gonna have fun :). A good week seems to be ahead of us. Now that almost the summer is here, I want to enjoy it to the max, gym, tan, bikinis :D, holidays, beach, mini skirts and sexy clothes, bbqs etc etc... :)

Today I also changed a bit the appearance of my blog, hope you like it :)